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I’m 18 And Get Treated Like A Child?

My parents and brother treat me like i’m a baby. I’m a shy person and have been all my life, but my parents talk to me like i’m 12 or something. They say things like, ‘are you too frightened to go and ask for a drink?’ and ‘you’re afraid of everything’ and ‘are you going to be staying with us until you’re 40?’ They also favour my brother since he is going to uni and has all these amazing plans whilst I have no idea what i’m doing and they joke how i’m going to be working in Asda and get employee of the year. To them it’s a joke but it’s not to me.
I literally feel like a failure and I know they love me but some of the stuff they say to me makes me feel rubbish.
I just want to get out of the house and prove to them I can be independant but I feel trapped and i’m starting to believe what they say to me about working in Asda and stuff. What do I do?

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3 Responses to “I’m 18 And Get Treated Like A Child?”

  1. Kaitlyn says:

    Tell them that what they say hurts.

  2. Dennis says:

    Actually , It’s sadly . Unfortunately , Families can’t be so pure like other ones ,sometimes. You must get rid of your shyness a way . Why don’t you move to a new apartment ? Even though you work . And working is not something to be made fun . Not working is .

  3. kevin says:

    Start standing up for yourself and why in hell would you go to Asia, that’s stupid for them to even say and really it’s not even funny…i mean on a comical scale i give it a “fail”. They must be trying to break you out of your shell, so break it, they may not like what come out…LOL GL

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